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As a warning, this post may ride the fine line between appropriate and inappropriate. If you would care to avoid reading about sexually explicit acts, I want to suggest for you to stop reading now. I seek to inform those who want this type of information.
That being said, let’s get down to the nitty gritty. Here are my top five tips for giving mind blowing head:
1. Worship the twig and berries – Above all else, make your man believe that his package is the very most important thing to you in your LIFE, even if it is only for that moment. Lightly run your fingers over bulge in his pants. Gently caress his balls as you slowly unzip and unfasten his button. Unwrap his package like it is a present you’ve been waiting a century for. Plant gentle kisses all over as you get your hands on it for the first time. Moan in pleasure as you FINALLY take it in your mouth. The importance here is on projecting nothing but an all-consuming desire for his manhood.
2. Variety is the spice of life – Mix it up and try different things. Long and soft, short and fast strokes, palm down grasp, palm up with massaging the balls with your hand, different speeds and varying pressures. Try lightly running your tongue up the underside of the shaft or swirling your tongue around the head of the penis. Lightly lick the underside of head. Suck on the end of the penis while you trace patterns with your fingertips along the shaft. Keeping in mind to worship the cock, do anything you think might feel good because odds are, it will.
3. Blowjobs are not just limited to the mouth – When I am pleasing my partner, I use my whole body and try to involve his whole body as well. Multi-tasking is the best frame of mind to be in for this tip. While I am sucking on his penis, I may be stroking his shaft with my right hand, running my fingers lightly over his chest with my left, and pressing my breasts up against his legs as I work, simultaneously. I try to make sure any part of my body that could be pleasing him, actually is. Keeping in mind to mix it up, I like to switch between stroking, sucking, rubbing, kissing, wrapping my breasts the shaft and sucking on the head. Try to make every touch feel like it is dripping with passion and desire.
4. A chafed penis is not a happy penis – It is vitally important to any quality blow job to keep the penis well lubricated. Absolutely essential. With continuous rubbing and stroking, it is very easy for the skin to dry out and start chafing from the friction. In my experience, it is unnecessary to buy anything special to lube it up. Though, I will say that store bought lubricants can be nice and offer some fun options to play around with. For me, the best lube is always the saliva I get from deep throating/gagging. When I’m sucking and things start to dry up, I might intentionally shove the penis down my throat to produce a mild gagging reflex. That gag reflex produces a really thick and slippery saliva. It is perfect for stroking and other penis fun. If any part of you catches on the penis when you didn’t think it should, put some more lube on it. I have yet to find myself wishing I had used less lubrication.
5. Always be handling the cock – The focus of any blowjob should always be on the penis. Mixing it up and including other parts of your partner’s body is just an added bonus – doing so should never take away from pleasing the penis. It’s an inside joke, but I say to remember ABS: Always be stroking. I might stop sucking to run my tongue over his abdomen, but as I remove my mouth from his dick, my hand replaces it and continues the pleasure in a different but continuous fashion. The important thing to take away from this tip: always be pleasing the penis.
Exploring Alura 
I just wanted to let you know that I shared your article on my tumblr blog. I sourced you in it, and I just wanted to make you aware incase it was not okay with you.
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Thank you so much for sharing! I’m so excited that you found my information worthwhile. 🙂 I checked out your site too but wasn’t able to find your About page. What is your site about?
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It’s mostly a blog for pictures. It’s about creating a positive environment for ladies to show off and appreciate their bodies without fear of judgement.
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Every picture is either submitted, or reblogged with permission from the ladies themselves. It’s all about body positivity.
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I wanted to thank you for the new submission. It was lovely. 🙂
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Wow, thank you!!! 😀
I’m thinking of ideas for my next submission!
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Do you teach classes or give private lessons?
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I have considered the thought and am open to doing both. My thoughts have always been drawn to throwing an informative party of sorts. Have a bunch of girlfriends over, learn some fun sex tips, and have fun and laughs all night long.
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Reblogged this on Exploring Alura and commented:
I wrote a post about giving good blowjobs in 2014. When I wrote it five years ago, I was absolutely talking about pleasing the penis. But now that I look back, it goes so much deeper than just pleasing the penis. It goes down to the root of stimulating the MIND behind the penis. And the rules are the same when you want to give mind blowing MIND to reach through and grab onto HIS HEART.
1. Worship the Manhood – Above ALL’s Else, make your man believe/know/feel/understand that His personhood is the very most important thing to YOU in your LIFE, even if it is only for that moment. If you want HIM to be your every moment, HE should be your every moment. In the moments where YOU can’t be together, YOU should be thinking of HIM. If YOU aren’t considering HIM then why should HE be considering YOU? And that’s where relationships fail, so much comes between two that what is there to hold them together when EVERYTHING is causing them to think of other things? Why stay together when YOU can’t think of Anything but YOU? When you find that every moment filled with thoughts of HIM, then YOU will have found the TRUTH of Passion.
2. Variety is The Moment – When YOU unlocks the TRUTH of Passion YOU begin to wonder/marvel/divine/realize how much excitement and euphoria and entertainment exists within every microment that comes to be reality. Passion positively alights the present moment in a Trail of Glory, alighting each step forward in a forward progression of unrelenting connection and communication and commitment. Truly the World Comes Alive when YOU see HOW much HE LOVEs YOU. And HOW deeply YOU needs HIM to be Happily at Home in Heaven. Because living in the moment and feeling ALL that is GOOD is the key to Perfect LOVE.
3. LOVE is Not Just Limited to the Mouth – It is easy to say, “I LOVE YOU” but WHAT do YOU spend TIME doing to SHOW that LOVE? HOW much energy do YOU give toward making a living example of HOW far YOU will go to make HIM happy? When I am showing LOVE to my partner, I use my whole being and try to involve his whole being as well. Multi-tasking is the best frame of mind to be in for this tip. I worship God and thank HIM for blessing ME with such a gracefilled man. I bow down in submission to the superior intellect gifted to the man God placed as my husband in LIFE. I praise the HEAVENS for blessing reality with a being so gentle and soft and considerate to bring to life four of the most wonderful Aspects of Existence. I commit my Soul to the preservation of the LIFE that has been bestowed and the responsibility that comes with such LIGHT and TRUTH and BEAUTY. I give my HEART to being as Happy as Possible in the LIFE before ME. And by giving ALL of that, my every moment is spent in dedicated service to the Family I know to be my own, creating what they could call A Happy LIFE Full of The LIGHT of LOVE, absolutely genuinely showing ALL that THEY mean to ME.
4. Friction in the HOME is Not A Happy HOME- If your moment is filled with consideration about how YOU is going to lose it if xyz happens again, YOU are Not! a Happy Person. If in your moment YOU have given yourself the freedom to indulge how much more it would take to set YOU off, then YOU are not in the business of indulging HOW good it feels to be Happy. Because when YOU is Happy, there is No TIME for Anger’s Voice. And so the question becomes, if YOUr moment is filled with Passion and YOU have given your LIFE to being Happy, WHY are YOU letting Anger cloud your moments? So when LOVE is in your LIFE, Passion fills your every moment, and YOU are committed to serving your best, how is Anger ever going to create happiness?
5. Always BE showing LOVE – If LOVE is not dominating your every micromoment, what have you given power to influence your moments? Where do you lend your energy if not to the LOVE YOU desire to feel? You get what you give. If you are busy giving your thoughts and considerations to Anything less than a deep and blinding LOVE of the divine, how do you expect to get a deep and blinding LOVE in return? It’s like a Boomerang, that which you throw out to the universe will be returned in equal measure. Give Nothing, YOU gets NOTHING. Give EVERYTHING and YOU gets EVERYTHING. Plain and simple.
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And who am I to disagree? 😉
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I like this post. I think it is one of the most popular that I have. Or at least I have a couple people that like to read it regularly.
I like the thought of us being open with sharing information on how to better take care of people. Whether that be with hugs and kisses or more intimate touches that bring about a deeper and more explosive connection.
I think the world could use a big dose of love. And if I were going to be a leader of a revolution I would start by equipping my army with the art of making others feel better with their being. Artist and Expressionists. Massagers and Lovers. Beauty Makers and Comfort Givers. A whole plethora of people who specialize in taking the hurt of the mind, body, and soul away.
I wouldn’t plan to use my army to take over anything but rather to take away everything that has ever hurt. Making each person the army touches feel that much better with existing and by extension reaching out and helping others feel better.
I have first hand experience with being gifted with knowing how to please others. I know how wonderful you can make a person feel when you give them an honest helping of loving consideration and affectionate touching. The world comes alive when someone really touches you with true love. I would love to give that touch to everyone who ever longed to feel wanted and create a community that revolves around sharing that epic sort of love.
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